Let’s talk about something uncomfortable: the fetishization of Asian women. On the surface, it can look like a compliment – being called “exotic,” being told we’re “more attractive” than other women, being the “preference.” But if you scratch beneath that surface, you find a history that’s anything but flattering. It’s
Have you ever started your day with a clear plan, only to find yourself scrambling to remember what you were supposed to do next? Or struggled to juggle multiple projects without feeling completely overwhelmed? If so, you might be experiencing challenges with executive functioning skills. Executive functioning is like the
Read more on this topic in Where I Belong: Healing Trauma and Embracing Asian American Identity, Chapter 9: “Embracing Our Intersectional Identities” (pages 193–230). In a world that often tries to simplify who we are, it can be difficult to embrace the full complexity of our identities. We often find
As members of the AAPI (Asian American and Pacific Islander) community, many of us have experienced moments that felt off – a comment, a joke, a question – that left us unsettled. But when we try to explain it, we’re often met with confusion or dismissal: “It was just a
In the vibrant tapestry of Filipino culture, family ties are woven deeply into everyday life. For generations, Filipino families have upheld the value of – Yet, behind this seemingly idyllic portrayal lies a complex interplay of history, tradition, and immigration that shapes the lived experiences of Filipino Americans. Evidently, the
