If you know, you know. Being the eldest daughter in an Asian American family isn’t just about birth order—it’s a role, a responsibility, a quiet contract you never signed but somehow agreed to the moment you took your first breath. From an early age, you
It can be complicated to manage relationship dynamics between siblings in a typical family. When one family member is neurodivergent, this can add complexity to the family dynamics and roles. While neurodivergence certainly affects the family member themselves, it can also affect the other members
In a world that often prioritizes tradition over flexibility, navigating neurodivergence during the holidays can be particularly stressful. The holiday season can also highlight the complexities of family dynamics—especially for families navigating neurodivergence. Angela Nguyen, a therapist specializing in ADHD and neurodivergent family systems, shares
The holidays often bring families together, creating opportunities for meaningful connection. But for many, this time can also highlight emotional struggles, especially for those navigating depression or other mental health challenges. Broaching these topics with family members can feel daunting, but open and supportive conversations
For people with loving families where everyone just somehow gets along, the holidays is usually something to look forward to that brings a smile to your face thinking about the fun, love and laughter usually shared over a table of warm, delicious food. If this
Perfectionism is a trait that many of us grapple with, often viewing it through a binary lens: good or bad. However, the reality is far more nuanced. Understanding the costs and benefits of perfectionism can help us embrace its positive (and protective) aspects while mitigating
When one generation has experienced major historical events such as war, genocide, slavery, colonization, systemic oppression or personal traumas such as migration, abuse, neglect, or poverty, its impacts can be felt in subsequent generations even if that generation has no direct experience of these events.
Do you have a teenager that struggles with inattention, concentration, or focus? Do they have a hard time remembering things and staying organized? Are they always feeling restless or on the go, sometimes acting impulsively? Do you feel like you are living with a ticking
Do you have what it takes to sustain your marriage or long term relationship? Good relationships take time, investment, commitment, TLC, and problem solving skills to build. Just like how growing a plant or owning a home requires regular interventions and care, having relational fullness
Working through conflict effectively is essential to all long term relationships. When it comes to conflict resolution however, many couples, especially Asian American ones, can struggle with navigating their anger during heated fights. For Asian American couples with traumatic upbringings, anger expression is often a
