For Filipino Americans, life is a delicate balance between embracing a rich, family-centered heritage and adapting to the independence-driven culture of the United States. Many find themselves navigating an intricate dance between two identities, each carrying its own distinct values and expectations. Embracing Two Worlds In an intimate conversation on
Ever find yourself thinking, “I’ll focus on my mental health when things calm down” or “I’ll work on myself once I finish this project”? Waiting for the “right time” can keep us stuck, waiting indefinitely for circumstances that may never align perfectly. Lauren DeVera, dancer, CEO, and founder of Lions
Perfectionism is a trait that many of us grapple with, often viewing it through a binary lens: good or bad. However, the reality is far more nuanced. Understanding the costs and benefits of perfectionism can help us embrace its positive (and protective) aspects while mitigating its harmful impact. The Costs
When one generation has experienced major historical events such as war, genocide, slavery, colonization, systemic oppression or personal traumas such as migration, abuse, neglect, or poverty, its impacts can be felt in subsequent generations even if that generation has no direct experience of these events. Intergenerational trauma can manifest in
Do you have what it takes to sustain your marriage or long term relationship? Good relationships take time, investment, commitment, TLC, and problem solving skills to build. Just like how growing a plant or owning a home requires regular interventions and care, having relational fullness and longevity requires similar efforts.
Working through conflict effectively is essential to all long term relationships. When it comes to conflict resolution however, many couples, especially Asian American ones, can struggle with navigating their anger during heated fights. For Asian American couples with traumatic upbringings, anger expression is often a key roadblock to relational connection
The Uncomfortable Truth About Anger In my practice as a therapist, what I’ve observed is that most people are generally uncomfortable with the emotion of anger, whether it’s their own or someone else’s. Sitting with their anger, expressing it, communicating it, and sometimes even just acknowledging that they are angry
In this episode of Yellow Chair Collective’s podcast, therapist Angela Nguyen discusses a theme she often addresses in session with clients – guilt, shame, and the pressure to be a ‘good person.’ With host Helen Garcia, she discusses how the sitcom show The Good Place can address this theme and
In the vibrant tapestry of Filipino culture, family ties are woven deeply into everyday life. For generations, Filipino families have upheld the value of – Yet, behind this seemingly idyllic portrayal lies a complex interplay of history, tradition, and immigration that shapes the lived experiences of Filipino Americans. Evidently, the
