For many immigrant families, silence can feel like safety. Avoiding tough conversations about loss, identity, or expectations often feels like a way to protect ourselves and others. But Susan’s story reminds us that silence often deepens the wounds it aims to cover. Through her journey
For people with loving families where everyone just somehow gets along, the holidays is usually something to look forward to that brings a smile to your face thinking about the fun, love and laughter usually shared over a table of warm, delicious food. If this
For Filipino Americans, life is a delicate balance between embracing a rich, family-centered heritage and adapting to the independence-driven culture of the United States. Many find themselves navigating an intricate dance between two identities, each carrying its own distinct values and expectations. Embracing Two Worlds
Ever find yourself thinking, “I’ll focus on my mental health when things calm down” or “I’ll work on myself once I finish this project”? Waiting for the “right time” can keep us stuck, waiting indefinitely for circumstances that may never align perfectly. Lauren DeVera, dancer,
In this episode of Yellow Chair Collective’s podcast, therapist Megan Soun discusses a challenge she often addresses in session with clients – the ongoing journey towards work-life balance. With host Helen Garcia, she explores how the hit drama show Severance explores this goal, and offers
Perfectionism is a trait that many of us grapple with, often viewing it through a binary lens: good or bad. However, the reality is far more nuanced. Understanding the costs and benefits of perfectionism can help us embrace its positive (and protective) aspects while mitigating
When one generation has experienced major historical events such as war, genocide, slavery, colonization, systemic oppression or personal traumas such as migration, abuse, neglect, or poverty, its impacts can be felt in subsequent generations even if that generation has no direct experience of these events.
Do you have what it takes to sustain your marriage or long term relationship? Good relationships take time, investment, commitment, TLC, and problem solving skills to build. Just like how growing a plant or owning a home requires regular interventions and care, having relational fullness
Working through conflict effectively is essential to all long term relationships. When it comes to conflict resolution however, many couples, especially Asian American ones, can struggle with navigating their anger during heated fights. For Asian American couples with traumatic upbringings, anger expression is often a
The Uncomfortable Truth About Anger In my practice as a therapist, what I’ve observed is that most people are generally uncomfortable with the emotion of anger, whether it’s their own or someone else’s. Sitting with their anger, expressing it, communicating it, and sometimes even just
